
Selling Your Business….The Unpleasant Surprise After
By Terence J. Shepherd, Principal ROCG Boston
“I was 47. I just sold my business and had $3M in my bank account. Do you know what the problem was?”
This was a question I was asked by an attendee after one of my recent speaking engagements. I’ve seen or read about his situation a hundred times before, so I knew exactly where he was coming from. “You found yourself with nothing to do”, I replied. “Exactly”, he said. “There is only so much golf you can play before you start looking for something to do.
Something that keeps you active, engaged and connected.” The problem he found himself grappling with is one that has surprised many business owners after they have sold or transferred their business. What do they do with their new found time?
All of a sudden there is a huge void and it can be frightening, lonely and down right depressing. So much for the happy ‘life after-sale’ experience owners dreams about.
They quickly learn that it’s not all about the money. They find that personal well being, personal satisfaction and family harmony are much more important. In preparing for their transition, owners completely miss the importance of planning for these emotional or right-brain issues that will control their personal satisfaction later on.
Most of the time, their focus is solely on the transaction. They think it’s easy. When it’s time to get out, list the business for sale, grab the money and move on. What could be simpler?
That’s how they get caught by surprise. As entrepreneurs, most owners are great at left-brain analytical issues and tend to them very well, thus their focus on the numbers and the transaction. Conversely, they are usually very uncomfortable with the right-brain emotional issues and it is easy to understand why they overlook or avoid dealing with them.
Let’s get back to my attendee and where he suddenly found himself after the sale. As an owner you’ve identified your life through your business. You’ve been the main go-to guy. The person everyone needed and demanded time with. When you walk away, that sense of power and accomplishment and that feeling of personal identity are gone. What’s there to fill that void?
This is a powerful and emotional issue that needs to be identified and properly planned for to ensure a successful transition. In planning for this owners may find themselves in unfamiliar territory, and if they are unsure, they should look to find outside help from someone experienced in the business transition area to help guide them through the process.
The personal emotional issues are the key drivers to a successful transition. If an owner doesn’t properly address these issues, then after the sale, they will continue to be unpleasantly surprised.
Terence J Shepherd, CPA, MST, is Lead Partner of ROCG~Shepherd & Goldstein Consulting Group, international consultants to small and medium sized family-owned enterprises, and Managing Partner of Shepherd & Goldstein Business Consultants and Certified Public Accountants. He can be reached at terence.shepherd@rocg.com.